Just I have just read the a sneak preview on "KABHI ALVIDA NA KEHNA"(new Movie),Movie is gonna interesting either...

Director’s Note
“KANK doesn’t have solutions to failed marriages, but it does raise a few right questions” Human relationships have always perplexed me. These seemingly simple bonds between people can amount to so much and cause such upheaval that lives change drastically with a minute change in these equations. Especially in a fast changing world of today, such changes seem magnified hundred fold forcing us to question our age old definitions of relationships and commitment. The seed for Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna (KANK) was born somewhere from these thoughts. The alarming statistics of failing marriages in the recent times, often made me wonder about the relevance of the institutions to our society today. With men and women handling far more responsibilities than what was conventionally assigned to them centuries ago, it is natural for them to expect more from life for themselves. So in this complex scenario how much does one compromise on self-gratification for the sake of commitment? Or should one compromise at all? Not that I have found solutions while making the film but even if I don’t have the right answer, I’m glad that I could raise a few right questions through KANK and I sincerely hope that the movie, apart from fulfilling its apparent role of entertainment also inspires people to look into their relationships to resolve their issues..!

It's what was written I have same feeling..


Marriage is very sensative issue,Their was not very right way to have right life-partners..
Some ways to be practiced are 1) Arranged Marriage 2)Self Arranged Marriage 3)arranged Love Marriage :-) 4) pure Love Marriage..

1) Two Unknown people having profile matching liked by photographs (pretty right as per parents :-)) meet three four time with permission of parents :-) have finally tied a knot with some sweet words like compromise,adjustment...with the feeling of "how long I will wait yaar" or "may I will not get better proposal" or " My Most of friends are married now " or this time for settling in life :-))

2)Self Arranged Marriage from shadi.com/jeewansathi.com..bla bla bla lol..
there are some few sites are pretty good,Most of the things are same except here atlease both r interested and keen to know each other(not as much passive as in previous case)


3)Arranged Love marriages here couples are in same office/ same society/same collage..
here they think yes he/she are good to be a life partner,some things are matching,some things canbe neglect..(here family background ,hobbies are known to each other,It is not as blind as pure Love Marriage,)It is also like self arranged marriage but in flavour of love .....


4)pure love marriages are rare.here you can have your soulmates...radha-krishna...Laila-majnu..hardly pure/holy love converted in to nupital bond...

Mr.Johnathan Anderson,174Cms Tall,Deep big Brown eyes,mediun sturdy Build,Brownish black hairs,pretty attaractive,australian born........A Man Ruling over me from last decades..
he he..now u r again going to misunderstand..he is hero of my Novel.........
A Man of Guts,character,hardwork and passion.He belongs to Middle class family in australia,Faced single Parenthood in early Teenage ,grown up by mother,Highest values instilled in him by his Mom....................
It has taken a lot from me to mere understand his character.
A rock shield Character made from struggles faced in life,masculine nature,down to earth,strong faith in God and Simplicity are what visible features of the character..
on negative side comes his some rash temper,possessiveness and huge ego...
on softer side he is romantic lover,his broad saftest shoulders and warmth of his presence.........

Novel is about.........................hmmmm wait......my new blog is all about it...:-)
Don want to crack the mystry...

Today on my way ,I have seen lot many warkaris(Pilgrim) on their way to pandharpur(Most religious place for Marathi people)..They walked for many days togather to go their lord's place..
They came from many different villages,very simple peoples rustic by their manners,carrying old colorless sacks on their head,most of them wearing slippers ands ome ppl are bare feeted...What is not Lacking is undominating enthusiasm,Zest for going to God's place,Strong faith and urge for a God....
You can see many such devotees in my country..from himalayas to kankyakumari...
When so many hearts are filled with richest feeling known as Faith,devotion and sacrifices...

Tell me now who is saying my country is Poor?????????

The Way Of Living The Life..............
Lines from Hindi Songs...
Mei Zeendagi ka saath neebhata chala gaya...Har fikar ko dhoowa mei udata chala gaya..
Joo Mil gaya usi ko mooqatdar samajha liya..joo na mila usko bhoolata chala gaya...

how truth it has been.... this truth about life... Compromising with life is the way of living the life..

Hum he raahi pyaar ke,Humse kuch na boliye..
jo bhi pyaar se mila hum uski ke ho liye..

One more way of Living the life..............Welcome the love and feel it...enjoy it..........

Jeewan se bhari teri aakhei majboor kare jeene ke liye...

Immersed yourself in Love with one who loves you in same way,with full spirit..........yupp this is also one way to live the life...


A Watan , A watan mujko teri kasam..teri kadamo mei jaa tak luta jayenge..
Love nation..feel strength in veins..Living for nation ..Its not easy way but yes most highest way to live and sacrifice..



Har pal jaha jee bhar jeeoo jo hai sama kal ho na ho...............
Ye aapna tarika hai bhai..................
Life is Journey not destination.......More pleasant the way.....more blissful the life will................

Living Life is the Style..........

Kehne ke liye sabhi Zinda hai...Par jeena kitno ko aata hai...........:-)

my sher...please donot copy it...

Har Dil mei dard hota hai..
kabhi dastak de kar to dekho..
Har Dil ki apni dasta hoti hai
kabhi sun kar to dekho....

Jab rah hi itni masatani hai to manzeel ka intazar koun karega...
Jab rukh hi teri deewani hai to kisi aaur se pyaar koun karega......


Some sher r liked (its not mine)
Dil Gumsum, Jubaan Khamosh
Ye Aankhein Aaj Yu Nam Kyu Hai
Jise Kabhi Paya Hi Na Tha ,
Unhe Aaj Khone Ka Gum Kyu Hai..


Khud Ko Khud Ki Khabar Na Lage,
Koi Achha B Is Kadar Na Lage,
Aap Ko Dekha Hai Bas Us Nazar Se,
Jis Nazar Se Aap Ko Nazar Na Lage...



Dil Ko Adat Si Ho Gai Hai Chot Khane Ki,
Bhigi Palko Ke Sang Muskrane Ki,
Kash Anjam Hum Pehle Se Jaan Jate,
To Kosish Bhi Nahi Karte Dil Lagane Ki.

Kisi Bhi Riste ki koi Manzeel nahi hoti...Zeendagi kuch aisa safar hai,kahe to sabhi HumSafar hai,Kahe to Koi Nahi.."
howz that...
Yuhi chalte chalte kitne sathi mil gaye..
yuhi chalte chalte kitne lamhe gujar gaye..

yuhi chalte chalte kitne aapne bichaad gaye...
yuhi chalte chalte kitne sapne ujad gaye..


Kitne poorane dost bas yaadein ban kar rah gaye..
kitni yaadein yaad rahi..kitni yaadei Waqt ke saath dhool gayii..
kuch pal yaad rahe basss...baki saare bhool gayii..

One line from old hindi song...

Itna hi shukar samjha koi jitna saath nibha de.....
Jaanam maran ka mel hai sapna yeh sapna beesarade..........
Koi na sang mare.............

Yesterday I have remembered a day..when I was in 9th grade..

A Elocution competition was arranged by science institute of cotton research..

Topic was Is Science is useful or not..I cannot able to collect exact wording..

All most all top school were participating in competition..we had given our nominations to our class teacher..we were 13-14 ppl nominated for debate from our school..we start preparing..

I have written a long script..I have taken side of science as many of us did..:-)..we prepared our speech and it was nice..before two days of real competition..we have to deliver our speech in front of our principal.. we enthusiastically given it.. after my turn my principal told me.."hey there are already soo many ppls are given in pro science as it is useful..why donot give it in negative side..that science is not useful in our lives"How it is sound..my principal asked me ..I was shocked..but maam...in low voice I said, I have already prepared my speach...at last moment...My principal uttered "No,look there are many in pro of this and their script are pretty good...we need few ppl to have speack against science..so .."

I nodded my head sadly..

My friends were happy as their speech was intact... infact finalised..

I was feeling low.." y to me " ...I m feeling somehow dejected in front of other frnss..

on the way to going home ...ohh almost most of schools of town are participating..now have start from scratch ,1 and 1/2 day remaining.. :( talk negative abote science that also in cotton research of science institute..y they will give the number who is talking hell about science..my chances r pretty low..

some how I collected myself..hey but y should i give up...I will try...I uttered to myself..

I returned to home "hey mom my topic has been changed ..nowi have speak against science ..at last moment.."

My mom say..."i will give some points ..donot loose hopes"

My mom given so me points such as "bhopal gas explosion.."Some points I thought about my own "such as nuclear weapons,bad use of atomic energy,increment stress and competition"...some how destruction of social life...TV as idiot box..heavy school bags and homework spoiling innocent childhoodd..ha ha..I got many points..:-)..my speech is ready..

I practiced in front my sisters..:-) they have to listen me...as i m youngest...:-))))

on the Day of real competition ..a big bus came to our school..we all students sat in that bus..

On venue there are soo many student... I got the Idea..competition is bvery high...Nobody here to loose..everyone in their respective school uniforms...looking confident...

then we hshown whole premise..is really huge....they shown their machines..and many more..not remembered anything right now..

Then we had snacks..and competition started.........

I have seen small but elegant eagle trophy for first prize..Hey I want that one..I said to myself..

after many english and marathi speeches my number came....

I have decided ...this is first time when i m on such abig dais..I have seen some mischievous guys of my school on front row...my confidence on away to go...I cannot ..But then have decided not to look at them at all..some cool guys and gals are sitting in middle rows..I targetted my vision to them ..Started...initial shaky voice becames confident ...I m speaking from heart..I m feeling what science did wrong with lives..."many ppl died bcoz nuclear explosion","world war","day to day sytress in life",competition spoiled childhood",playgrouds are replaced by TV/video games" ..accidents..I m feeling everything at that moment..and spoke it out...

There was huge claps after my speech..I heard...

there was time announce..First they called number 3..he was someone else..second ..he was some else..

then they announce First prize goes to....................pindrop silence in whole hall..someone screemed from background..must be Leena.. announcer said "Yes She is Leena saraf from paranjape High school..." :-)..

Learning new things is my hobby,I always eager to learn new Lessons as they Keep charm in my life growing...
I have been in the same project from Last 1 and Half year,First few months were really challenging ......
but then it is pretty stagnant.. :(...I have tried to do little automation using C#.net,I have made a tool known as Qawebutility and this is also widely appreciated :-) I have to work on its final testing part so it should be used in our project..Then we have taken training of Qtp ,we did assignments on Qtp ,It was fun to work with it but implementing it in our project is quite tough..
now wahi purani ram kahani...feeling sluggish,need new technology to work on..want to have hands on somethingggggg new ..............
I like changes in my life,everything new,challenging..Once accustomed with it,want something new...Fasination for newer skills was always high....

Go anywhere there are people who underestimate you, counteract your confidence,try to dominate you..Life is never ending struggle,struggle for surviaval..how true it has been...
I have faced it from childhood...First it is for first five numbers in class,now in corporate for first five performers..:-)
but I always kept my domain as different....
Zest for learning automatically cuts my domain from others...
It opens newer sphere of knowledge for me,newer sphere of fasination,newer sphere of enthusiasm,I also like people who always exprementing with their lives...
gossiping was never my taste...I never had interest in other lives..when higher goals are in front of you, who will been keen in low level interest...:-)))))
I am remembering the Quote "live as you will die tomorrow,Learn as you have live forever"
I knew Vanities of earth are eminent,but My heart donot leave hopes...learn as much you can...