Understanding of self...
When I was a child,I exactly know what I am..what I want,what I like and donot like,my habbits,hobbies,preferences...bla bla bla..
As I grown up defination for self fades away... and I come to know Everything is a game of a will....
1)Hobbies and interest can be developed
2)Habits can be changed
3)Good thoughts can be implemented and bad can be thrown away..
4)Customs can be adopted.

Everything is on a Will...if anyone has a strong will and desire...she/he can change ...

When I grown up further..I found out..

My liking and disliking are not the same..they are changed..
Man's nature is not a constant thing...it changes with time,
There are so many factors are working simultaneously like
company u have,people u met,society u r living in,crises u faced and expriences u had...Thousands of factors working on it...

nature is going to change ..nothing is constant in this world...

As I grown further and Read some really worthy books..
I came to know what was describing "leena" was pretty superficial..true defination of me (soul)
is immortal,strong and ever free..and I unnecessary binding myself it with a 5-3 inches mortal body :-)
When I listened to hindi songs..I liked them very much..but now i like rock too..

If something is constant..one can comprehend it...but it's not true.. universal law is everything is going change...
It's a lie when i say i understand u fully..because ur nature or what u r (as a personality is not a constant)..in course of time the person i know is going to change...so why i waste time in knowing you...Consider time as attribute .. it is limited... That time i can utilise for better purpose ...Life is short...
one more thing Love and understanding are mutually exclusive..My Mother loves me from Day 1 ,ever before that...at that time not only my personality but also my body in amorphous form...:-D
knowing each other doesn't stimulate love...
we even donot know ourself..the day we will know ourself ..on that day we will rest in eternal bliss..ultimate stage of illumination...
As I grown up further ..I found out everyone has amoeboid shape of personality with centrally located glittering nucleus(God inside them)...
So I have decided Donot waste time in understanding others ...accept them whatever they are...
serve them in a small possible way....

oh my Lord (god)..meek like me can never understand your vast universe and its law..
I m like a small particle of dust in your whole galaxy...
oh my lord..but i still dare to say..u r my father and I love you ...and I know u love me too...
in the same way I dun know what i m or others are..but i know ur essence is in everyone...