Suffering...Sometimes i think suffering is a mental state..it is a matter of choice..one can live life happily if he/she has decided to do so..
some pains are inevitable , completly agree..but retrospect and tell me in past how many things are really sufferable?...how many pains you can really avoided if you have already decided to keep urself away from them? Sometimes I think one cannot blame others for his/her own pain...bcoz it is sign of weekness..you kept urself vulnerable..that is your fault..
All vulnerable species got attacked by stronger one..:-) Darwin's theory..
Two things i want my heart to understand is 1)one who suffered bcoz he opted to do..so stop blaming other..2) basic tendancy of soul is towards happiness..long faces donot make lives..
real nature of human is to keep himself happy. ..that's the reason revolution comes to picture..Human being did progress bcoz they want life more comfortable and happier..
so its not ones real nature to susceptible to suffering or to blame others..on other hand real nature of human to fight against adversities..not to win some emotional sympathies

sometimes man himself njoy his pain..its not circumstances and specific person..he made them reason so can he can njoy his pain..:-)
its a tingling euphoria..:-)

sometimes I think it is matter of outlook..positive and negative..Life is the way u look after it..

melancholy is like termite eats away positive energy..it is contagious..
So my dear heart when u r happy ..u r willing to make others happy..
it is itself a good deed...be happy always..............